I'm so sorry she doesn't know about female ejaculation (a totally different thing than an orgasm, dear). As it turns out, female ejaculation is a hotly debated scientific issue. According to wikipedia:
Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid by the paraurethral ducts through and around the human female urethra during or before an orgasm. It is also known colloquially as gushing or squirting, although these are considered to be different phenomena in some research publications. The exact source and nature of the fluid continue to be a topic of debate among medical professionals.
In my own personal experience, squirting is always related to stimulation of the g-spot (whose existence is also hotly debated). I do recall, however, that Spanky's wife squirted during a spanking-- no internal stimulation of any kind! (sounds sooo hot to me!)
The suggestion that women can expel fluid from their genital area as part of sexual arousal has been described by women's health writer Rebecca Chalker as "one of the most hotly debated questions in modern sexology." Female ejaculation has been discussed in anatomical, medical, and biological literature throughout recorded history. The dichotomy between the interest devoted to female ejaculation and the basic acceptance of its male counterpart has been questioned by feminist writers.
|The G-Spot (4) is reportedly located one to three inches into the vagina, at the side of the urethra (6) and the urinary bladder (2).|
My husband is the first man I ever squirted with, and in the beginning, it was always with me riding him on top. Now, it's usually with stimulation of my g-spot, which according to my husband, is the little spot on the inside front wall he can feel raise and stiffen when touched. When he finger-f*&*s me, he hits that spot repeatedly, which pretty much guarantees sending me over the edge. Squirting isn't necessarily an orgasmic event, however. I've certain squirted, and then ridden on to orgasm later. They are/can be distinct events for me.
Apparently sexologists don't like to say definitively there is or isn't a g spot or that there is or isn't female ejaculation, because the experience varies and they don't want women to feel like they're lacking something or doing something wrong. I guess there's a surgery you can get to enhance your g-spot sensitivity (!!)
Anyway, what's your experience? Do you squirt? What percentage of the time? Is it during orgasm or a separate event? Does the g-spot send you to the moon? Leave a comment and let me know!